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If you're feeling completely exhausted and can't go on:
Burnout is more than just being tired. It's a state of complete physical, emotional, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged overload. You're not weak - you're overloaded.
For a scientifically validated assessment, I recommend taking a comprehensive burnout test based on the internationally recognized Maslach Burnout Inventory. You'll get a precise risk assessment with personalized recommendations.
Burnout affects 1 in 4 workers and is not a weakness, but a natural response to chronic overload. You are not alone!
If you feel like absolutely nothing is working and every day is torture, you may be in a burnout emergency. Here's your first aid plan:
Immediately: Cancel all non-essential appointments. Inform your supervisor about your situation. You don't need to justify yourself - "health issues" is enough.
Answer these questions honestly (Yes = 1 point, Partially = 0.5 points, No = 0 points):
When you're burned out, you often forget basic needs. This makes everything worse. Here's your basic checklist:
💡 Why this works: When stressed, your brain forgets basic needs. Meeting these signals to your nervous system: "I'm taking care of myself." This immediately lowers stress levels.
Your brain is overloaded. It can no longer prioritize, which is why everything feels equally important and impossible. Here's your reset:
When you're stressed, you breathe shallowly. This intensifies panic and exhaustion. This technique works in 3 minutes:
When to use: Before stressful meetings, when you can't sleep, when anxiety rises
Why it works: Your body naturally uses this pattern when crying or after stress. Doing it consciously tells your nervous system: "Danger has passed."
This might be the hardest thing on this list. When you're burned out, admitting it is the last thing you want to do. You think you should be able to handle it. Like asking for help means you're weak or failing.
That's the burnout talking.
You need to tell at least one person what's going on. Preferably:
You don't need to have it all figured out. You don't need a complete plan. Just say: "I'm burned out and need to make changes."
💬 What I learned: When I finally told my manager, her response was: "I wondered when you'd say something. What do you need?" I'd wasted three months suffering in silence, assuming she'd think I was weak.
I'm not telling you to join a gym or start training for marathons. When you're burned out, the idea of "exercise" probably feels like another obligation.
But your body needs to move. Stress hormones accumulate in your system, and movement is how you process them.
Start ridiculously small:
The goal isn't fitness. The goal is to move stress through and out of your body.
When you're burned out, you're probably either sleeping too much (and still waking up exhausted) or too little (lying awake with racing thoughts).
Your brain needs a clear signal that the day is over. Mine looks like this:
Yours will look different. The specific activities matter less than the consistency.
Keep a notebook by your bed. When your brain starts spinning with tomorrow's worries or today's failures, write them down. Not to solve them - just to get them out of your head. Tell your brain: "I've recorded this. You can let it go now."
Here are ten things you can do in the next hour that will make a measurable difference:
Once you've mastered basic box breathing, these techniques can help in specific situations:
This pattern is specifically designed to activate your parasympathetic nervous system and trigger sleep.
You probably burned out because you can't say no. You take on extra projects. You're always available. You're the reliable one who never lets anyone down.
That pattern ends now.
Start small. Practice these phrases:
You don't need to explain. You don't need to justify. You don't need to apologize for having limits.
Every "no" to something draining is a "yes" to your recovery.
This isn't optional. Burnout is a legitimate health crisis, and you need support.
Burnout often comes with physical symptoms - headaches, digestive issues, frequent illness. You need to rule out other conditions and get proper treatment.
Talk to your doctor: Be honest about what you're experiencing. Burnout is a medical condition.
Find a therapist: Preferably one who specializes in burnout, stress, or trauma. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and EMDR are particularly effective.
If cost is a concern:
When you need instant relief and can't do a long program:
Use this: Before meetings, when panic rises, when you feel paralyzed
Your work environment might be causing or worsening your burnout. Here's how to address it:
If someone you love is burned out, here's how to help:
Burnout and depression can look similar, but they're different conditions requiring different approaches:
| Aspect | Burnout | Depression |
|---|---|---|
| Cause | Primarily work/stress-related | Can have multiple causes, including biological |
| Scope | Mainly affects work domain | Affects all areas of life |
| Recovery | Improves with rest and boundaries | Often requires professional treatment |
| Duration | Weeks to months with intervention | Can be chronic without treatment |
Important: Burnout can lead to depression if left untreated. If you're not sure which you're experiencing, see a professional. Both are treatable.
Recovery isn't linear, but this framework helps:
Success measure: You make it through each day
Success measure: You have small moments of calm
Success measure: You have a rhythm again
Success measure: You see a future for yourself
Important: This doesn't replace professional treatment but can provide support:
Burnout is not the end - it's a turning point. Many people report that after burnout, they lead a more conscious, fulfilling life.
That's enough for today. Tomorrow you plan the next steps.
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Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes and does not replace professional medical advice. For persistent or severe symptoms, please consult a doctor or psychotherapist.
Nikolai Fischer is the founder of Kommune3 (since 2007) and a leading expert in Drupal development and tech entrepreneurship. With 17+ years of experience, he has led hundreds of projects and achieved #1 on Hacker News. As host of the "Kommit mich" podcast and founder of skillution, he combines technical expertise with entrepreneurial thinking. His articles about Supabase, modern web development, and systematic problem-solving have influenced thousands of developers worldwide.
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